Old reflections and photos by Zai




We had a few days off due to the Anzac holidays (Friday). I took a day off on Thursday so I had an extended break. On the last day of the break (Sunday), it has been raining and we stayed at home. I rummaged through some old stuff and found my old diaries, also this old reflection note from Steve and some old photos.

Steve's reflection must have been dated in 2008 since I found it in the 2008 diary. As I went through the old diaries, I noticed that Steve and I had many misunderstandings throughout the years. It has taken us 20 years to communicate better with each other, and even then we still have our moments. I suppose the best thing is that, after all these years with our ups and downs, we can still be together and try to be better, together. I don't think it will ever be easier, but all I know is that we will try our best with each other. We may still be growing up as persons. Growing old together is what we wanted from the start. To love and be loved. And everything else is up to the Almighty.
 

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